He was my first love, the only person i had sex with and everything.How do you deal with an ex who still wants to have sex with you??
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Either you're together or you are not. Decide which it is and then stick to it. Don't be a pushover. If he pushes for sex that you don't want, then don't hang around him--or never be alone with him.
Tell them no. Problem solved.
You need to say no, if he gets angry thats all he wanted from you was sex!!!!
We all say we love you just to get in your pants.
Hell, I love you too! Now come over.
(im serious, and your dad should have taught you this)
You need to let him know that you're not that type of girl to be going around ..Your relationship is over and that meens no sex as well ..
And if that doesn't work just tell him that you're in a relationship with someone else ...
Good luck to you !!
You shouldn't deal with him at all if he's not willing to give you anything but a penis.
You deserve better than that.
I'm not usually big on ultimatums, but in this case, I think it's needed.
You should really tell him that if he cannot control himself, you two can no longer be friends. If he truly wants to remain friends with you, he'll respect your wishes and try to be more considerate. If not, I would abruptly tell him to **** off. Sounds harsh, but some people need a loud wake up call.
Just say No if he does not get the answer then tell him that if he is not wanting to just be friends then maybe he should leave.
It sounds like you've given in and let him have sex with you since you two broke up? Well that's got to stop. A firm no should do it. If he can't deal with it then kick his *** out of the house, or leave his, depending on where you are. If he can't deal with the rejection then pull yourself back from him. Some people can deal with being friends afterwards, some people simply can't let go. It sounds like he's one who just can't let go and by letting him have sex with you and be friends with you, doesn't that make breaking up with him useless?
Well if you want him to get over with then just leave him alone and not bother. But if you yourself think you want him in your life to be in touch with or not loose him forever then think about it. Whats the harm? Are you married? No!!! And you want him in your life?? Yes kinda!!! Then go do it....what the heck!!! when you are confused yourself, and you;ve got one foot here n other there, might as well try and find out what you really want. It all comes down to your own choice, its either a YES or a NO!! No in between sometimes.
Don't deal with him. He obviously wants no commitment just sex. That isn't love. Love is respect and he certainly doesn't respect how you feel. Do not give in, you will only feel terrible about it if you do. Move on with your life. Find someone that will treat you as you deserve to be treated. Take care...
dump him for good already
dig a whole in theback, yrard and cram him in it hons!!
He would have to except no for an answer, if you don't go around. You will never be able to move on in life, if thats what you want. Any new bf you get, find you'll still seeing your ex..... they will never have a trust. Either make a choice to move on, and decide..... that you cannot even have a friendship with him any more, because you know now.... what he wants. The both of you must let go...... if you are apart.... and move on..... or carry it to the next level. You answer would be to tell him, and both stop depending on each other for that. If that is all there is left to your relationship it is not worth it to you or him. It is not GOOD for you or him!!! Just don't go......and stop talking to him......You both need to move on and let go of the past!!! An ex is an ex..... as hard as it is...... just say no, and don't go anywhere, or be alone with him. He has to take no for an answer........it is your giving in that keeps him coming back over and over.......You need to put the stop to it..... you have control of the wheel.... don't let it make you feel guilty..... Move on and let go of the past. It will be better for the both of you, rather than hanging on......to what???
There is no such thing as being friends with an ex..It just can't happen. One of you will end up hurting worse.. Just leave it alone and dont' become his booty call.
the only way he is going to have sex with you is IF you LET him, it does not sound like you are saying NO strong enough. If he won't leave you alone, get a restraining order, maybe then he will take you seriously.
Stop seeing him in person, and if needed, put a restraining order on him through your local police department. Forcing you to have sex with him is also known as rape. Best thing to do with a case like this is to cut off all contact cold turkey. One final ';goodbye phone call'; ... and that is it . Period.
If he is gonna be like that then you have to quit seeing him
Good Luck and God Bless
Tell him, in no uncertain terms, that you consider him a thing of the past, and if he keeps forcing himself on you that you will call the police.......Bet that will put an ice cube in his shorts......Take care.......
He comes back because he knows that he can get it from you. Plan to be some where else when he shows up the next time. Go out with the girls or to a movie. Just don't put your self in the position anymore.
pull out a pair of scissors he'll back off
find a bigger boyfriend, be unavailabe...
I know (from experience) that having sex with an ex complicates EVERYTHING. If he REALLY loves you, then he should be able to understand. I know it's a cliche, but it's true. He'll think that your there for his disposal and whenever he's horny, you're there for sex. At first it feels ok, because you love him, and he keeps telling you he loves you too, but then you begin to feel used. If you think you'll be with him again, then he can wait. If he determines whether or not he'll be with you based on any further sex rendevouz, then tell him NO.
*BY THE WAY, NOT TAKING ';NO'; AS AN ANSWER TO SEX IS CALLED RAPE*
well, i bet since he was ur first, he thinks ur sprung on him, thats why he wont take no for an answer, but lie to him, tell him u found someone who duz u better, lol, tel him that his sex was lame, and u regret it or sumthing
I'm in the same situation. it sucks. we were friends tell he wanted to be single but still have sex. so what i did is stop calling and stop seeing him. someone that just wants to have sex is not a friend. he is using you for your booty. it feels like **** i know but that's just the cold hard truth. i hope that what i said helped you. good luck
First guy you loved, first to have sex with, and everything...
so why do you NOT want that kind of relationship with him?
Are you sending mixed signals??
Tell him that if he isn't willing to date you, you aren't willing to give him sex. Sounds like he wants the benefits of sex with you and to date other girls.
Tell him to go get f****ed!
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