How would u deal with an immature ex that does things out of spite and he wont go away unfortunately ?

because u guys have a son together....he is always doing things out of spite and I have been cool up until now i feel like i am going to lose it but i feel like he will get a high off it.....what should I doHow would u deal with an immature ex that does things out of spite and he wont go away unfortunately ?
Minimize contact by having another relative or friend stand in for you during pick up and drop off times with the kid. You dont have to be there in person. When he calls let it go to voicemail and listen to his question. If its relative to something important such as visitation times, you can return the call. If it's just BS, leave it alone, Whenever possible have someone else return the call or call when you KNOW he can't answer (like when he's at work) so you can leave a message back without talking directly. Minimize direct contact with him as much as possible.





keep him at arms length. If he can't see you or talk to you, he can't see you react. And that's all he does it for.


You DON';T have to be friends anymore. It would just be a charade. All that matters is you dont trash him in front of the kid (causes psychological stress) and he gets his court ordered rights like visitations. Nothing requires you be friends. Don't pretend to do it for the sake of the kid either. The fighting actually causes more stress.How would u deal with an immature ex that does things out of spite and he wont go away unfortunately ?
When you have a kid together, it makes it hard to lose the ex.





My husband's ex wife was like that. She clung on for a long time before finally settling down and having a baby with her new husband.





Other than getting a protection order, there isn't much you can do. Even protection orders won't really keep them away. I hope you have a lot of patience! Otherwise, the relationship may not work.
there's many options when it comes to harassment and intimidation.





Talk to your local police officer or sheriff. They can tell you the criminal aspects of your ex's behavior and the remedies available.





It's amazing how quiet things get after a uniformed police officer reads knucklehead the riot act!
YOU had a child with this ';immature'; guy. why did you spend time with him?





he's there for good, since you had a kid. suck it up.






restraining order. alot of prayer.
nothing, he is just trying to get your attention..just ignore it, he will stop soon enough.. i did