Monday, August 16, 2010

How to deal with ex girlfriend?

Ok, me and my girlfriend of 1 and a half years broke up. She says she wants to just be friends and see how that works out. She still tells me she loves me and calls me baby, but told me when we broke up that her heart isnt in the relationship anymore. She wants to be friends but I think it's just hard for her to let go even though she wants to? Its so hard to talk to her without thinking she wants to be back together even though she says she doesn't. Idk I need some help. ThanksHow to deal with ex girlfriend?
She's sending you mixed signals.





If she doesnt want to go out with you its too soon to be just friends, you need time apart.





Its impossible to go from being boy/girlfriend to friends overnight.





What she's doing isnt fair to you.You need take a step back,in a few weeks things will look different with a bit of breathing space.





This is if you're sure she def wants it over,if you're unsure you need to talkHow to deal with ex girlfriend?
sounds like she is still hanging on to u when really she needs to let u go and this is coming form a girls point of view and also tell her that u r moving on and she needs to do the same
you need a clean break. you are letting her take advantage of you. tell her she needs to make a decision, either you get back together or you end things all together and then maybe down the road you guys can be friends. she has to understand that while its easy for her because she is getting what she wants, that you should not be suffering from this and still have those feelings. you need to take your time in getting over her and then work on being friends but you cannot just rush into staying friends after everything youve been through.
Just nicely tell her you no we are broken up right just try and stop acting like we are ok i dont mind being friends but id like to move on.
K dude, sometimes you gotta be rude to her and be a prick to her. Just flat out tell her how it is man!
Sounds like she's confused...maybe she doesn't want to be with your right now, but still talks like she does because she doesn't want to see you with anyone else. Talk to her about it, and ask her why it seems that she still wants to be with you
eh, it's probably just habit. you should distance yourself from her for a little bit so she can get out of the habit of saying i love you and calling you baby.
Well first of all, do you still want to be with her? If not just slowly start to distant your self from her, b/c in the future when one of you start dating again it will be awkward for you, her and your guys new partner. And your new partner would be intimidated by your ex and would most likely end the relationship early. But if you still want to be with her then just see where things go, but don't hang on too long!!
Just let her go. Give it about a few months and you won't think about her anymore. She is mind screwing you!
dude.. your story sounds so much like mine. I feel for you. My x-boyfriend is doing the same thing to me. I'm going to look back at your questions in a bit and hopefully get some advice myself too.
WOW....whats up with this question this is the 3rd times that guys ask this here...i wish my exbf think this way too.....win her back....try and try until she say yes again...good luck
why are you asking us.....you need to tell her this!
don't be friends forget about her and move on trust me if you don't take this advice u will be sorry i promise u
You need to tell her you don't want to be around her for at least 2 months so you both can heal. Make plans for dinner or a lunch exactly two months from now and give her the date. Then do not call her, accept her calls, or see her. She is probably thinking she can get you back and needs time to heal. If you ever loved her, give her this gift of time so she can move on.

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