How to deal with an ex in the past?

How can I get over my ex?





I use to date my ex for almost two years... we have been broken up for close to two months... im trying my best to move on and im currently dating this new girl whom is so sweet, nice, thoughtful and beautiful.





The only thing is I can鈥檛 get my ex off my mind...the problem is I don鈥檛 even miss her...she treated me like **** and I don鈥檛 understand why i keep thinking about her. Granted, we have had great times and moments together... but golly i cant seem to move on.





Do you have any advice on how to move on? I don鈥檛 want this affecting my new relationship...How to deal with an ex in the past?
I think the first step you've already passed, you're tryint to move on! yay. ;) I think it's sweet that you want to get her out of your head. try writing her a letter of all the things she won't let you say, the things she cut you off in mid word about. All the things you think were her fault, but end it on a positive note, about what you learned from the relationship and how it helped you as a person (even if the only way it helped you is to learn how NOT to act) then mail it to her (or put it in her mail box) don't give it to her as a note. She can't argue with you if you're not there to argue with. Let the girl your with know your doing it, because if your ex is really that bad, she might try to use the letter against you. The new girl might even feel better if she could read the finished note. hope i helped!How to deal with an ex in the past?
kyle, put it on paper. your emotions your experienced of her disrespecting you, yet in the same breath acknowledge that what you guys shared was there but now it's time to move on ,and wish her well.(hand it to her or mail it). kyle you'll feel better and your new gal will have a fresh start w/you and there won't be no junk in the trunk trust me. have a great day
i think alot of people go through that phase when a relationship stops dead in its tracks without what we feel like was proper closure...but you gotta do what you gotta do and push through those feelings...





you said she calls you names and has a bad attitude...let yourself get used to being treated nice in the new relationship and give yourself me time too...you dont want to get so absorbed in the new relationship that you create a bad habit of defining your personal success based on being single or having a girlfriend.





remind yourself that she is in the past and you are moving to newer and better things in life! you dont need that kind of poison in your life...hateful words can do more damage than realized over time...





best wishes!
Really the only thing that can help is time.it's hard to just get over someone.Even if they treated you like crap. It's ok to still like them. Maybe you are not ready to date another girl if you're still thinking about your ex...
be friends with her if u can bc theres nothing wrong with that...if she cant accept that then tell her how it is and move on
Honestly you know whats best for you already, you know takling to her will only get you no where yet you continue to associate yourself with her.If you really want to let go you can't have any sort of things around to remind you of her.Stop trying to contact to her thats only holding the process if you want to talk to her fine but as of right now for your present relationship flurish you have to get rid of it and start with letting go.
The fact that you used the word ';golly'; is absolutely adorable. lol Now for you question...it's just going to take time. I know it's probably not what you want to hear, but it's the ugly truth. Keep moving forward, it looks like you're doing a great job so far. Good luck!
Just act like she don't exsist and eventually everything will work out like it's supposed to.
Keep busy is the best cure. Create some new and better experiences with your new girlfriend. Or maybe join a gym. Exercise will de-stress you