How would u deal with an immature ex that does things out of spite and he wont go away unfortunately ?

because u guys have a son together....he is always doing things out of spite and I have been cool up until now i feel like i am going to lose it but i feel like he will get a high off it...its like he lives to try to piss me off....someone once told me he is telling u indirectly that he still loves me.....what should I do


How would u deal with an immature ex that does things out of spite and he wont go away unfortunately ?
when he passes in front of your car ....rev the engine lmao


no just kidding


guys love to piss us off( they think it'll get them make up sex)


some guys get turned on by angry sexHow would u deal with an immature ex that does things out of spite and he wont go away unfortunately ?
I had an ex like this. First of all NEVER have a confrontation in front of your son, and don鈥檛 say bad things about his father in front of him either.





Always try to not let the ex see he鈥檚 getting to you (this will really irk him). But for those times when he鈥檚 being insulting or disrespectful, be sure to stand up for yourself by saying the behavior is unacceptable and when he鈥檚 ready to talk reasonably you鈥檒l be open to it. This can be done in front of your son in a dignified way 鈥?just keep it short and simple.





My ex would frequently change plans , (like coming early or late for a pickup) or say we had made agreements that we hadn鈥檛. After a lot of frustration, I instituted a rule that no plans would be made unless via email. That solved that problem.





His spiteful behavior is not an indication of a latent love for you. I used to think that until I had to admit otherwise. It鈥檚 just a childish way to make you suffer and to feed his need to control any little area of your life that he still can. Don鈥檛 fall for it 鈥?just try to make every decision by putting your son鈥檚 needs first (including his need to see that his mother deserves to be treated with respect).
We deal with my husband's immature ex-wife who does things out of spite also...NOT FUN!!!





It would help to know what he's doing so that I could offer advice on how to directly counter the situation.


Honestly, just ignore him. Know what your rights are, what you're entitled to and stick by that. Treat your relationship with him like a business relationship- stick to the contract, nothing more, nothing less.
he's not trying to tell you indirectly that he loves you; you have to keep taking the high road and don't let any of his crap get to you......you are exactly right, he is immature.....
don't respond to his being annoying... if you show him that you're invulnerable to his actions, he'll get tired and will eventually stop..
He sees you mad and likes it so quit getting mad and he'll chill out if he sees he isn't getting under your skin anymore.
Pray for serenity.