Monday, August 16, 2010

How to deal with an evil ex boyfriend?

He 'text message' broke up with me a few days ago and now he curses and yells at me! We have lots of the same friends and before we were dating, we were like best friends. I made the mistake of trying to talk to him to tell him that we might be able to be friends again...later. But before I could tell him that he went ';Get the f*ck over it!'; ';Leave me the f*ck alone'; and all that. How do I deal with him when I see him every day on campus?How to deal with an evil ex boyfriend?
Turn your face and attention FORWARD . . . .





The best ';revenge'; is living a full, happy life.





Don't think about him . . . and if you can't pull that one off, don't talk about him, write about him, text about him, email about him. . .





Put your time, attention, emotional energy into something YOU love and when your heart has healed, the right guy will just ';appear'; without you even looking for one.





Dan in MiamiHow to deal with an evil ex boyfriend?
Sounds like your well out of it and he's showing his true colours, you had a close call there sweetheart. What a complete d***h@@d.





Leave him to stew in his own bile.


Don't try to be friends or explain anything, avoid him at all costs, he's a waste of space.





You just get on with your life and have a lovely time with your friends and family, next time take a longer time getting to know someone. remember people are always on their best behaviour for the first 4 or so months. Introduce them to your friends, new situations, etc.





Good Luck for the future, just put it behind you, and ignore this ass8**le on campus. If he at all bothers you then don't hesitate to report to campus authorities and police as necessary.Don't be intimidated.





Best wishes sweetie
Act like he does NOT exist. You can never go wrong taking the high road on this. DO NOT talk about him to friends, don't have anything to do with him. If he gets in your face, turn the other cheek. Show some class when dealing with this situation and it has the added benefit of heaping coals on this moron's head because he'll be the one coming across and a major jerk...
igonore him..pretend like his not alive...don't talk to him..don't talk about him to anybody..dat should get his attention
Just ignore him ,flirt with boys and make him jealous which is the best revenge and be happy being single
You don't.


Period.


He's history.


Waste no more time on him.


Move on.
You need to stay away from this man as he is abusing you and appears to be emotionally disturbed. It's not right for him to treat you meanly when you were trying to remain amicable but, I guess, some people just don't know how to relate very well to others in different situations. He may regret his actions in years to come but that doesn't help you in the present.





I think you should stay away from him and don't speak about him to anyone, I'd also clear out any memories (photos) you may have of you both due to the chance of you getting back together being exceptionally slim. Move on with your life, focusing on studies and work projects help a lot in the way of keeping one's mind off a break-up. If someone speaks about him to you, I suggest that you're honest. Tell them that you don't like to talk about him due to the fact that you tried to amicably deal with the break-up and he treated you poorly - leave it at that or you may come across as needy, which you're not.





Best of luck,





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