How would u deal with an immature ex that does things out of spite and he wont go away unfortunately ?

because u guys have a son together....he is always doing things out of spite and I have been cool up until now i feel like i am going to lose it but i feel like he will get a high off it...its like he lives to try to piss me off....someone once told me he is telling u indirectly that he still loves me.....what should I do How would u deal with an immature ex that does things out of spite and he wont go away unfortunately ?
Whether he still loves you or not, he's trying to get a reaction out of you. It could be something as stupid as him wanting you to have a bad day when he has one. Using your son as a pawn is probably the one and only thing he knows will get a reaction out of you. The bottom line is that he is trying to get a reaction out of you. If you let him get to you, he's won. I know it's hard, but take the higher road. Don't do it for yourself or him...do it for your child. He deserves to know that he has at least one mature parent!!!How would u deal with an immature ex that does things out of spite and he wont go away unfortunately ?
I don't understand why you have to have any interaction with him at all other than seeing him when you have to pass the child off for visitation. Remove all but the basic level of interaction needed and you remove the irritation.





Do your best to treat him with respect for the sake of your child. You're both adults with a child to think about. If he doesn't want to act like an adult, make sure you sue him for child support (it's your child's right), give him visitation and don't begrudge him a relationship with his child, and don't ever put him down in front of your son. Then just live your life. Moving on is the best revenge.





And to be fair, if you were 100% over him it would take a lot to really bother you. Once you're really over someone the stupid things they do just make you roll your eyes and think ';thank goodness that's over';. Try to think about why he's able to stir you up so well, and if it's because you still have feelings for him either try to work it out or at least admit to yourself that it has less to do with him and more to do with your own understandably unresolved feelings for the father of your child.