He sounds like a problem and future stress rolled into one. Of course, it's true that you never really get over your first ';love.'; But the only way to secure your current relationship is to understand that you play a major part in its possible destruction. You need to be POSITIVE that you won't fall into the trap again, and if you're not, then you're just going to have to tell your ex that you need to stop communication altogether. Explain to him how you feel, and that you're sorry, but things can't go back to the way they used to. Yes, he'll be hurt, but he WILL get over it sometime. It's better than EVERYONE getting hurt later on if things begin to develop.
It'll be hard, but it's the only way to protect the relationship you're in now. Taking caution for a while in the beginning will save you in the long run, trust me. Good luck!How do i deal with an ex who keeps coming back into my life?
Ex boyfriends are always no good. Don't give them the time of day. They ex's for a reason. They will only mess up everything good that you have.
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