Monday, August 16, 2010

How do you deal with an ex who repeatedly attempts to communicate...?

...when several times you have clearly asked him not to?How do you deal with an ex who repeatedly attempts to communicate...?
Screen your calls (or change your number altogether), block her emails, and return any letters. If these don鈥檛 work, you can call the police and make a report for harassment or file for a restraining order.How do you deal with an ex who repeatedly attempts to communicate...?
It depends upon how many times he has attempted to contact you in a particular time-period and how he attempts to do this. If it's a month since your relationship was terminated and he has pestered you more than twice a week, I would send him a simple, straightforward letter: ';You seem to not believe my spoken word ~ perhaps the written will convince you of the fact that, as our relationship is terminated, I would appreciate it if you would make no further attempt to contact me - it's past time for both of us to move on. Thank you';. (If he persists, tell him this is categorized as stalking and you plan to talk to his mother, father,(?) about this. (Assuming you know his parents well enough to do this?)
First I know its a hassle but change ur phone number. Second get his number on ur do not call list in case he gets ur new number somehow. Third let him see u with another guy even if u pay a big bouncer $20 for an hour to hang with u. Once they are like that ex guys don't give up easily %26amp; sadly it sometimes comes to getting a police AVO on him. Even if he ignores this %26amp; tries to contact u still its an immediate $5000 fine first time then jail time after that. Hopefully it won't ever reach this level cos its hard enough breaking up without all the crap that goes with these sorts. So good luck and I guess you have told him not to contact u a few times so far ? So again good luck and smooth sailing I hope.
Totally ignore him, cut him out completely. And if he still doesnt get the message it may be time to change your number. If hes turning up at your place it could be time to call in the police. They probably wouldnt charge him with anything, but hopefully it would scare him into stopping and would show your seriuos about not seeing him again.
tell them you dont want them in your life at all and you dont want to talk about why.


tell them to leave you the F alone


maybe throw a scumbag in there also.


being mean seems to be the only way to get through to people
Stop answering calls. Block his number. If he comes by don't answer the door. If he keeps coming get a restraining order; he has become a stalker.
Ignore them, block emails/phone calls/on myspace etc. and if they are physically intimidating you; restraining order!
fading!


but if it doesn't work you have to face him. tell him your current situation and circumstance. be straight and clear
Talk to Him/her ans ask about what his/her problem is..... and then clearly ask him not to bother u... n if even then....this happens....File an FIR
ignore them totally

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