How to deal with an ex that was physicaly abusive.?

My ex husband said that it was ok to have an affair and that it was my fault that he did so. I was married to this man for 11 years. Now he is telling everyone that it was my fault that we got the divorce and that I was the cause of his affair. Not true! He told me that he wonted another woman but don't leave in case it didn't work out with her. I said I am out of here and you two can be happy. Well in the end he came to me and pushed me to the ground and broke my hip.The jury found him not guity of the charges. I heard him laugh standing outside the court room. I cryed to think that he got away with this. How can a person deal with a knowing that it was ok for him to abuse me.How to deal with an ex that was physicaly abusive.?
just be happy knowing that he will never be happy in life. you made the right choice in leaving him, and in the end, he will get his. next time he might hurt the girl more and be sent to jail. just remember, its NOT ok for him to abuse, and it will never be your fault he cheated. he's spineless and worthless. he just wanted you to stay on his leash so he could do what he wanted and keep you under his control. move on. if you're afraid he might come after you, get a security system with video camera, and if he threatens you in any way immediately get a restraining order. there are so many more good things out there, you dont need that piece of **** bringing you down.How to deal with an ex that was physicaly abusive.?
You asked how to deal with him. I am not sure why you asked that question, you left him so now you dont have to deal with him. You should move on and find someone that will treat you the way a lady should be treated. Forget about that piece of garbage.
hire a hit man
It went to court and he won wow. Nothing you can really do but move on and learn from this experience. Thank god this no good for nothing man is out of your life. The best thing you can do is pick yourself up and dust yourself off and start your life all over again without him in it. I know it might be difficult that is if you have any kids by him but start doing things for yourself,love yourself and go out and start having fun. I would fight if you have children for full custody if he is abusive.
ask him to tie you up first and use hot wax
Oh Hun. I am sorry.. Do you need a shoulder? :)





Physical abuse, emotional, and mental abuse all hurts. Not worse than being cheated on or lied to but they still hurt.
Eric Cartman would kicking him in the nuts
All that matters is that YOU know the truth. You don't owe anyone an explanation for what happened. Your ex didn't get away with anything, he will face his maker one day and he will pay for all of his wrongs. Life has a funny way of getting back at people who do wrong to others, have faith. Put this out of your mind, move on and forget this jerk. Be thankful that it is over and you don't have to relive his physical and emotional abuse. It is only your thougts of this that keep you trapped. Don't allow yourself to dwell on it.
its not ok.never ok for a man to hit a woman....a real man doesnt.he wont get a way with it in the long run.the bible says you reap what you sow!
Counseling is your only option really. You will have to move on, he can't be retried, so legally that is over. There are many support groups out there for battered women. Call your local YWCA (not YMCA) or local Family Independance Agency. Your family doctor could even give you some assistance in finding a group. If there are children involved, get them couseling and speak to an attorney about visitation since he will be in your life for the long haul. If no children, good, things will be easier. Good Luck, hun.