How to deal with an ex boyfriend when you are pregnant with his child?

My ex and and I have been broken up since January but we still were intimiate and now I am four months pregnant by him. Its pretty clear that we arent getting back together but yet we are still emotional attatched to each other. I can't talk to other males without him getting angry and vice versa. It's becoming real stressful and I dont know where to draw the line at. How can we deal with each other for the next 18 years not being together but yet still be so possesive aboiut each other?How to deal with an ex boyfriend when you are pregnant with his child?
The first thing you should be thinking about is your unborn, all that stress isn't good for the baby, trust me I know. I was in that same situation with my sons father and it only mad me sick and stressed. I think you should just talk to him when it is necessary, let him know how the baby is doing when you go to the doc and thats about it, just try to have a good relationship with each other and remember whatever you feel the baby feels so dont stress yourself out it is not worth it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!How to deal with an ex boyfriend when you are pregnant with his child?
Sounds like you need counseling to deal with these issue.It also sounds like you both still love each other,so don't be ready to give up just yet.The very least you could become friends for the sake of your unborn child.
You will both have to grow up and deal with having a child together like adults.
If you are in another relationship or he is let him know that the life of your unborn child will depend on how he interacts with you now and after the child is born. Even though you are not with each other the child will be a better child if he/she has both parents involved in his/her life.
Get married....then cheat!
You two sound just like my nephew and his wife. They can't live with each other and they can't live apart. They've been separated for over a year now and my nephew was just released from jail having stalked her at work, following her home and hitting her car. His reason? He was convinced she was seeing someone else. If you're not getting back together, you both need to agree to see other people. It won't be easy at first. Try to be each other's friend. If you want to remain his ';booty call';, that's your prerogative. I hope you can get this resolved before the baby comes. Best wishes to you and your baby.
It seems to me that you should be together. Also, what, when your kid turns 18 you'll just stop associating with eachother?
Draw the line at anything that does not pertain to your child. The rest is your life. And you need to stay out of his, no matter what. If you keep this up not only will the both of you have bad relationship after bad relationship, it will mess up the head of your child. Be together or be apart, don't drag your kid back and forth wondering if his/her parent are going to be together or not. Also how can your child learn to be in a loving healthy relationship if neither of you are setting a good example. Be smart.
Refuse to engage in anything intimate-physical or otherwise. Keep conversations strictly about the child and end them if it goes anywhere else. Time will change the way you view each other.
are you looking for a new boyfriend? focus on your unborn child and take a break for a while
You can't. You need to decide once and for all if you are a couple or not. If not than neither one of you has a right to get jealous of the other. If not I feel sorry for your child.
if you both have such strong and obvious feelings for eachother i think you should find a way to be together. move away from everything that is your your way of being happy with him and new family. if this is impossable to do then i think you both need to move on and not see eachother at all.