How to deal with an ex-wife that's making my baby's daddy miserable?

My son is almost 7, I left his dad 5 1/2 years ago, because of problems we were having that I couldn't deal with because of post partum depression. I wanted to work things out but I needed my space, and he was very hurt. I let him have residential custody of our son, but I could see him whenever I wanted. In the time that we were apart he started seeing and eventually having a baby and marrying another woman. While they were together I was respectful, and even overly nice, I've been told(offering to babysit if they ever wanted to go out). Well she cheated on him so many times that it's even questionable that the child is his. Now that they're divorced we've gotten back together and I know that we're supposed to be together. But his ex-wife plays these games with his head not letting him see the child, and then telling everyone that he doesn't make an effort. On occasion she's said that he wasn't the father, but then she takes it back. Any advice?How to deal with an ex-wife that's making my baby's daddy miserable?
Your husband could demand a paternity test to at least solve that part of the problem. He can also take her to court and get a court appointed visitation schedule. It's not like in the old days where they were always in favor of the mothers. I know several fathers who have full custody of their children and receive child support from the mothers. Plus the fact that he took care of your baby during your separation will count in his favor I would think, showing his dedication as a father. There isn't much you can do about his ex-wife's behavior. You can only try to limit your exposure to her and use self control in order to not react to her when she tries to play games.How to deal with an ex-wife that's making my baby's daddy miserable?
Get a DNA.Then file for visitation rights its easy let the court handle it that way if she wont let you see the kid you will have a court order and she will get in trouble.
As hard as it may seem Stay out of it! when it comes to that situation, because it seems that this wife has a grudge against you and the boyfriend so just stay out of it.. However bring to your boyfriend attention about taking her to family court so there can be some form of visitation established, if she keep playing games about paternity your boyfriend has a right to request a test be taken so you and him can get to the bottom of it. Misery loves company, just because she is miserable now, she is making every effort to make you and him the same way. Just be strong and in due time hopefully it will pass. Good luck!
If he really wants to know whether this woman needs to be in his life he needs to get a paternity test. If he's not willing to find out that its not his child then he ought to tell her that if she wont let him see his child then he wont be paying her a dime. And if she really wants to press the issue she better be damn sure that the kid is his. Because a court of law will make them take paternity
tk advice frm some lawyer as to wht can b done in this case.
Order a paternity test and your husband should file for custody.
There is always some baby daddy drama going on. The problem of the ex wife and your baby daddy isn't your responsibility. Let him handle it and you stay out of it. If I were a woman I would have a problem with just having a baby daddy and not a husband. I understand things happen, but if you were married to this guy, then it would be your problem.





Stay out of it, he'll work it out.
He needs to resolve this issue in court. Period. He can't stop her from talking bad about him but he can legally enforce his rights to visitation. He also does not need to talk to her AT ALL except as it pertains to their child.
dna test, so he can prove it once and for all. after that go to court and get legal right to visitation. you haven't said if he's done that but that's what i'd do. i'm lucky my ex is very respectful(so far)